ncarter
03-15-2009, 12:56 AM
Hi, I would like to give some advice and hope maybe it can help someone. I have read about guys not helping out around home and dont help with babies. Sad to say my guy was the same way. Untill he went to doc cause feeling stressed out. He on meds now for a few days now. He is a different person. He is helping with our son and even cleaning up the place without me asking or fighting.I dont understand myself but has something to do with a chemical imbalance. And a lot of stress can cause it. Maybe some of these guys have a lot of stress. Like our son born a month early and would not eat at first. We got in a bad car accident. We where all fine cause we in back seat. His brother was ok but seeing there mom with blood all over did not help. It was not her blood we hit a deer. And most stress from my family they have nothing to do with me and my mom disowned me. And my guy was great and there for me when i was pregnant. He really cared for me when my family walked out. He cooked and we cleaned our place together. So i feel bad cause i should of notice he was not the same. So maybe if these guys moods our different.We have talked and he now understands why i was mad at him. Its like he did not notice why i was unhappy. And he feels bad for the way he was acting. He really understands. How we notice with him. He not sleeping good. And he just pulled away and wanted nothing to do with us. I hope this can help someone.