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01-31-2009, 05:09 PM
Hi, I would just like to know if anyone else had this happen to them. I was very close to my mom untill i told her i was moving out cause pregnant. She was not happy about that. She told me not to keep it. She told me never get married. Yes we will someday. She is mad cause my son has dads last name. We tryed to let it work with her but she wont hold baby when he crys. He has nothing to do with the guy im with. She wont call cause she wont talk to him. She only wanted to see me and baby. Dad not invited. But she disowned me. She has a new friend that calls her mom
02-01-2009, 05:17 PM
i know how you feel honey. i got pregnant young, and at first my mom told me to abort, but i chose to place my child for adoption. she kicked me out and wasn't supportive at all during the pregnancy. but once i met my husband and had my daughter now, she all of a sudden wanted to be a mom again.
don't take it too personally, i know it hurts. sometimes people just don't know how to let go and let their babies find their wings. she'll come around. my mom is a great grandmother now, and, even though she never apoligized, i don't hold it against her.
02-08-2009, 09:39 PM
Hi I'm 18 an my boyfriend is 21 its our 1st baby we have been 2gether 9 months an we already told his ma and she is more den happy jus have 2 tell my ma and I don't think she'll be as happy I think she'll put me out but we plan on moving out anyway but how do I tell her.....?
02-09-2009, 11:54 AM
Hi, When is the baby due ? just to let you know try not to be stressed out not good 4 baby. have you found a place to move to just in case if she dont handle it good. but hope for the best cause she will be a grandma. does she even know you moving out ? you sound soo much like me if not. i was 26 moved out cause a few months pregnant and you know your mom wont handle it good. dont make my mistake and hide it untill you cant anymore. you and the guy and maybe his mom can sit down and just tell her. i know its hard. And i know with what i wrote about my mom makes you worried. do you know what your having ? if you need to talk i will
02-16-2009, 12:49 PM
I had already moved out well before i got pregnant, but the pregnancy was a very big suprise at a very bad time. I kept it from my mom for a really long time, b/c i wanted to tell her in person. I live so far away, that it just kept getting pushed off. I still wish i had told her before i felt my baby move for the first time. Thats a special moment i'll never get back. My boyfriend still hasn't told his parents and i'm due in April. I rolled with the punches. My mom was supportive, but the rest of my family isn't. I have an aunt that says she refuses to come to the baby shower unless i move back home. That isn't going to happen, so i'm dealing with that. She also told my cousins not to speak to me. Thats hard, but i'm dealing with it all b/c the baby is top priority, and taking care of myself emotionally and mentally is very important in the care of my unborn child. In the end, with everything else involved, my boyfriend, my child and i are a brand new family. We are putting our little family first, b/c that where the love will come from first and formost always. That little girl will have unconditional love to give, and receive from everyone around her regardless. There is nothing more important i could do for my baby than provide a safe and comfortable home for her. Regardless of anything else, or anyone. Me and my child, and her father are going to do what we can to be healthy and happy.
03-23-2009, 10:41 PM
Me and my mom are going through the same thing. I am going to be 20 when the baby gets here and my boyfriend 18. She doesn't want me to name the baby after him, was pissed when I waited on him to get to the doctor to go in for the ultrasound-he wasn't late we were early, She didn't think he was important enough to be there but wants to pull my two sisters out of school to go to the next one. She doesn't want the baby to be at his or his family's house without her there, well she really doesn't want it there at all. She has told my boyfriend that SHE will hold the baby before he ever can. All I can hope for is that she will get over herself since I am due in August. I wish luck to you though....
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