too old for babies???

[scubadooba2]

Hello all,

My husband and I have 2 beautiful, healthy children. I have always wanted to have 3 kids, but my husband is afraid he is getting too old. I am 31 and my husband is 45. He is very healthy and loves being a dad, but he is afraid the child would be embarrassed of him or be angry later in life. I know this may sound stupid to some, but he is really worried about it. I don't think he is too old, and he doesn't look his age. Our daughter is 10 months and our son is 3 years old. I thought maybe he just really didn't want to have anymore kids, but he said that is not it. He thought another baby would be great, but his age makes him hesitate. Any info or advice would be appreciated!!!

[myboysmom]

If your baby is only 10 months old, what's the difference of another year? If you are able to conceive right away, you will have only 2 years between the middle and last child. To me, that's not that big of a difference, even 45 to 47. That's just my opinion.

[APEMBERTON]

I Don't Think It Is Too Old. Like Myboysmom Said If Your Youngest Is 10 Months That Would Only Be A 1 Year. People Are Having Kids At All Ages Now. I Say If You Can & Want To Why Not?