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mommyof2angels007
10-30-2010, 01:53 PM
okay so my fiancee mother has cursed me out for the last time.....! Her oldest daughter ended up prego and was and always askes me for advice.....I told her boyfriend and her I dont want to be involved anymore in this drama their too young.....Mean while she tells her mother she is progo and the mother says well what are you going to do?? I was pissed because not only is my man upset his little sister is prego by umm which guy and also that his mom is just okay get an aboration and choose which guy!!!! So i texted the crying ex bf I dont wanna be involved anymore the mother answer was dumb my mom woulda kick my butt ya knw......so he forward the messages to the mother and she has called and texted me i am a dumb *****, lazy ass ***** no good for her son....and threating to take my kids away and call social; services on me ! she told me I need to mind my own business...what? I was until they bugged me every day.....so long story short....She made my man choose me and his kids over his mom and sisters?? Wow harsh.....So I was okay with the fact that even though she called me I don;t knw how many bitches and horrible stuff I was still going to let her visit her grandson on my terms in my house.....but a week ago I received another message from the mother that she was gonna teach me a lesson on not minding my own fucken business...??? So now im over her seeing him....and to add insult to injury I dont want my man to be crazy mad but he really shows np concern that his mother keeps threating me and harrassing me?? I dont want him to choose but at the same time id want this lady in my life anymore!!!!!

harrisjm
10-30-2010, 11:41 PM
all i can say is talk to him, tell him how you feel. tell him what his mother did. and talk it out.

me and my mother in law made my husband choose between me and the baby or her, he chose us . but over time i forgave her and now everything's fine , but he did not forgive us for doing it, it was really hard on our marriage.we have worked though it now, but we almost called it quits. so i think the best thing is talk to him about it, and come up with something together. good luck