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KaraDPalacios
07-22-2010, 03:30 AM
I don't think I have ever had a pregnancy screw with my emotions as badly as this one has. And this is #6! I'm bawling retardedly for NO reason, and when I have a reason, wow am I just hysterical. I can't do this for another 8 months.
cochies
07-22-2010, 12:11 PM
I sure hope this doesn’t go one for another 8 months for you!!! With my first two kids I was fine but with this one I have been feeling down and the little thing make me want to yell at people. I really feel bad for the people I work with!!! I bet they think I have gone crazy because no one here knows that I’m prego again. Don’t really want to tell until I get past my 12 weeks. I have lost one before and I just hate telling people until then. But I sure hope everything gets better for you!!!
grayson2011
07-24-2010, 04:32 PM
my emotions seem to be closely connected to my husband's feelings and actions. Like just now, he looked at me, decided that I was in a bad mood (and stated so) and then ran off. He doesn't want to be around me when I have any emotion other than happiness and he runs. that makes me feel so much more upset and i don't have anyone to vent to-- like I don't have any emotional support. I'm finding myself becoming more and more angry with him because of his reactions. I'm not sure how to break this cycle.
KaraDPalacios
07-25-2010, 09:41 PM
my husband was like that with our first together. He was so freaked out by the whole pregnancy thing that he wouldnt touch me at all. This time he's pissed. We weren't trying to get pregnant. I was actually on the shot, but I was told it was ok to take my migraine medicines ( which on the pill its not) cause migraine meds flush the hormones out of your system, like you never got it at all. SO taking just 5 days of those pills nullified my shot and 2 months later Im pregnant. I'm happy about it mostly, but he keeps throwing out there at the worst moments that he wishes I weren't pregnant. He even got mad at me today for putting it on my facebook that I'm pregnant. I mean why wouldn't i tell my friends and family? So I have been totally bitchy lately to everyone. I shouldn't have to defend being pregnant, its not a bad thing and why does it have to be someones fault?
ANyways, sorry to vent, but with our first he did eventually get over his freaked outness. LOL until labor. I have c-sections and he refused to go in with me. He sat in the hallway just out side, and when I saw him afterwards he had this deer in the headlights look to him. He didn't relax until his friend took him across the street for a beer, lol. But it all turned out great he was just scared. Give your guy time he'll come around.
jlharrell1981
07-26-2010, 10:28 PM
Last night we were watching a movie (that wasn't particularly sad...or good) and at the end I was crying. My hubby gets up and moves to the couch with me and says, "Why are you crying baby?" So I commence to bawling like a baby for 10 minutes. And when I was done, I giggled and went to brush my teeth. LOL!
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