iam in need of some help

[harrisjm]

i am having some more problems with my husbands family, his sister and i have never gotten a long, she mean, rude, disrespectful, and just plane hateful ! and to top that in the last 2 years she has runaway 5 time and was caught 3 times by the police for selling her body!! now shes home again and wanting to meet my son, i dont want that little girl near my baby, but mark wont drop it, we have gotten in some really bad fights about it, its really coming between us. i love him but this is my baby boy, and i dont want that kind of person around him. iam just need some help with this. i just dont understand why he keeps pushing it. when he knows it will end in a fight, and ill just say no. would anyone here feel the same ?

[harrisjm]

thanks iam just having a hard time, it feels like theres a gap between us right now, were have been trying for another baby, but i dont no if i want one if its going to be like this.his family makes me just want to leave, iam just not sure, what to do anymore.

[mommyof4kiddos]

My own dh and I have always agreed that our family comes first, with extended family second. At times it's hard to agree on that, especially when money is tight and a distant uncle dies and dh wants to go to the funeral 7 states away... (But THAT is a different post altogether!) But we TRY to remember that if fighting about our extended family is going to pull US apart, then it's not worth fighting over. I know every situation is different though. Best of luck