12-02-2009, 07:14 AM
well i'm having a boy, due april 7. been through a lot this pregnancy, from family fueeds to amnios. i feel the pressure of making sure i am prepared very strongly now. i'm eager to start my 'nesting' process. BUT i've gott my boyfriend's brother, his girlfriend, their daughter, and one of my boyfriend's buddies living in our 2 bedroom home. we already have as rambunctiousd pit bull, and my boyfriend's 4 year old daughter too. justt being at my house stresses me out. i've been sleeping on my mom/sister's couch for a while now to escape. my 'house guests' don't live similar lifestyles as me and my bf do, and since he invited them, half my dishes have been broken, all of our spoons are buried in the yard by their daughter, and i can't seem to find any of my bathroom hand towels. i know it sounds bizarre. i also keep finding personal items taken from their places and never returning, my bf socks are always in their laundry, and they don't believe in cleaning anything! it's tearing our relationship apart. it's hard for me to ask my bf to kick his brother out, but i ask anyway. they don't work, and haven't tried to find any work, or alternate housing. not to mention.... they pay nothing. i can't afford to just up and leave, especially this far along, but i'm stressing out, crying non-stop, and i'm scared of any bad side effects. the clock won't stopo no matter how much i pray. what do i do now?