hubby got diabeties

[marksgirl78]

this is complicated to bare with me.
i have been with my husband 8 years on & off, but due to circumstances we split & to cut a long story short he isnt the father to my 3 year old son.
we got back together & we got married last month, we pretty much started to try for a baby but because he is diabetic he finds it hard to maintain an erection for very long we have tried viagra it helps but also he got peyronies disease which makes it either painful or difficult for us to have sex.
viagra is ok but cos of the side effect we dont use it very often not only that but because of the tablets he is on the skin around his willy is very thin & more often or not it tear's & its uncomfortable to have sex all the time.
is there anybody out there who is in this situation? i hope so as i am finding it all a bit daunting.

[Mommawants2know]

Not familiar with your exact situation, but there is an herb that increases both men and womens libido, and also helps men with "staying able". I don't know if it is safe to take with diabetes and certain medications, so of course ask your doc first. This herb is also suppossed to help with conception. It is called Damiana. Like I said though check with both of ya'lls docs first.

[Aquarius68]

In addition to Viagara there's Cialis and Levitra, the latter was once prescribed to me and it works, but the side effects include nausea which kinda sucks. I don't know about Damiana, some guy I knew used to smoke the stuff when he couldn't get pot but I didn't try that. Could work, you can find it in health food stores. I don't have any other conditions (diabetes, peyronie's) and most of my problem was related to a poor diet, excessive drinking, cigarette smoking, lack of sleep and some psychological hangups particular to my partner at the time. Sex in the morning after a good night sleep without partying the night before and before any cigarettes in the day and everything was 110% operational ... I haven't needed the stuff in a while. It can be a bit daunting, a good doctor who can talk honestly and openly is a good find if he can find one.