my husband left me after 5 yrs

[Izzybaby2008]

i am sad it's just not fair he told me he found someone better and that i was never good enough but no i was good enough to have his little girl here is my confession i have a shirt of his and i sleep with it and smell his scent and i cry and cry i just dont understand how one min hes says he loves me then he dont i am so lonely how can i move on when his daughter looks like him and remind me of him some time i take percet to drug myself so i dont feel the pain

[JWills]

Izzybaby2008, that is just so sad. The preganacy hormones are kicking in on my end, and your post just about brought me to tears. I dont even know what to say to help you feel better. I found myself in a similar situation not too long ago, and I was devastated. Please feel free to send me a message if you want to talk. I (and I am sure many others) are here for you. I have a hotmail account as well. Please dont hesitate to send a message, even if it is just to vent. I hope everything works out for you, Izzybaby!

[afwife23]

I am so sorry to hear about that. That has to be tough. I found out after our daughter was born that my husband was part of a swingers website since before we got married and that he paid over $50 for it when we were living in his parents house and couldn't afford to put a roof over our daughter's head. I finally had enough so in October of 2007 my daughter and I moved to Texas with my mom. I told him that if he ever wanted to grow up and be a man then I might think about coming back to him but not until he got a place of his own for me and our daughter to xome back to. We have been down here for over 6 months and he has yet to move out of his mommy's house. I told him that he needed to cut the apron strings and be a man and provide for his family. I hope that things get better for you. Obviously there is a man that is better suited to be your husband and that beautiful little girls daddy since he can't seem to do it. Let me know how things are going.

[ra11en]

Oh Izzybaby, that is terrible. :( I am so very sorry for you. I wish there was something we could do to make you feel better - know that you're not alone.

[Cynister]

Some men are just jerks. What he did to you is horrible. I wish you could just be angry at him instead of sad, it would be even better to just get over him but you can't just turn love off. Love your daughter for who she is, I know it's hard to look at her & see the man who hurt you but just try to take in her beauty, her sillyness & love for what it is, not who it reminds you of.

We're all here for u sweetie, stay strong. *hugs*

[ailanismami]

Izzybaby.. I am new here, but I am so sorry to hear about your pain. Your husband will soon get a visit from good ol' karma, don't you worry.
Please try to focus on yourself and your little girl. He isn't worth your tears.
Hang in there! With time, you will heal.